Dream about dating an old man
While statistics can, theoretically, be used to prove/disprove anything, smart people can usually see through the lies to focus on the numbers.Christian Rudder, president of Ok Cupid, is the guy who digs up the numbers from the millions of people using his free dating site.In his book, “Dataclysm,” he points out that who we want to be and who we really are can be two very different things.Data reveals truths that we might not want to say out loud.The trouble with taking representative at their word is that, you know, sometimes celebrities don't want a story or relationship getting out.
Regardless, big data is often very revealing about people’s real preferences – height, weight, age, income, sex, and so on.Like a lot of minorities, Caitlyn Jenner is very focused upon respectability politics -- she wants to look and act a certain way that she feels is more dignified.(That's true of all of us, up to a point, but celebrities who are also minorities feel a powerful added pressure to represent their entire demographic) Cait is also a parent with adult children, so she is also concerned with how her children will feel if she begins dating just a couple of years after coming out to the world and transitioning.Of course, when you flip the data around and look at what age men find women most physically appealing, you get an appalling answer. It’s shocking to see on paper, but not so surprising if you’ve ever talked to an actual man, read a men’s magazine or looked at porn intended for men.Instead of the female curve, which suggests that 34-year-old women like 34-year-old men, men find 20 year-old women most physically appealing, no matter how old they were. This doesn’t mean that 40 year old men want to MARRY that 20 year old woman, only that they find her the most physically appealing.